Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us
Daniel H Pink

My First impression based on the title and the subtitle was that this was just another self help pump up book, I couldn't have been more wrong. This book offers an unconventional view on what drives us humans and argues vehemently about why traditional carrot and stick methods of motivation don't work, or rather why they don't work in today's knowledge economy.

Daniel Pink argues that we humans are driven more by the innate need to do meaningful and creative work rather than just the general drudgery of monotonous work that we tend to in the factories of the 20th century.

The book quotes a lot of very popular economic studies and borrows a lot from other books like Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell, by Levitt and Dubner, Good to Great by Jim Collins and others. To his credit Pink comes across as very honest and straight forward, giving credit where it is due and clearly outlining any disclosures.

The book professes what enlightened leaders know and have been teaching for ages, Money and material rewards can drive people only so far, beyond a certain threshold the effect of throwing more additional money doesn't generate any more motivation, very much like the principle of marginal utility. Offering people the freedom and flexibility in timings and methods of work is worth more than just giving more money. The feeling of being part of something worthwhile will often dissuade us from jumping ship even when we might be worse off financially.

In fact offering money can in many cases be a negative like was observed in an experiment where potential blood donors were offered cash rewards for donation, and the actual percentage of donors who ended up donating was found to be lowered because the act of getting money somehow took away the altruistic feelings of a noble act like blood donation.

The best part was towards the end where the author has recommendations for businessmen (Books of further reading, policies to try out and implement, etc). Recommendations for individuals and parents bringing up children (Various schools and websites offering an enlightened educations based on the needs of the children)

All up I would whole heartedly recommend this book to everyone and anyone, especially parents , teachers and anyone who has an interest in leading people.

Titan: The Life of John D. Rockefeller, Sr.
Ron Chernow

To put it simply John D Rockefeller was till date the single richest man in history ever, well now that requires a second mention THE RICHEST MAN EVER even when you compare the Pharaohs of Egypt, Bill Gates, or any of the Ancient Emperors. He was the first man to amass a fortune of close to a Billion dollars and that is in 1900 currency. To give you another comparison, John.D was earning more than a million dollars a month when the average American income was 19$ a week, and that is before the days of income tax.


So it is not surprising that his biography would be a best seller. The book paints a picture of a man of contrasts that was John D, His aggressive and ruthless monopolistic business attitude against his kind and generous that forever changed the face of old money.

Ron Chernow traces John.D's start as a humble no name who never went to college and started trading in commodities, moved on to trading higher commodities petroleum and in Thirty years through brute force and gentle diplomacy built Standard Oil Corporation to one of the biggest monopolies in the world. Not very different from the Monopoly Bill Gates has over the Home Pc Market.

The book is not condescending of the man who is loved and hated at the same time by such large numbers of people. It brings into light some of the shadowy deals, and methods of work which made Standard Oil to the world's biggest monopoly. It doesn't give an aspiring reader like me a detailed insight into John.D's methods of treating people but the book has a few examples nevertheless.

Here is the Wikipedia page on the John D. Rockefeller, Sr which also makes interesting reading.

The Life and Times of the Thunderbolt Kid: A Memoir

by Bill Bryson

Bryson is at it again ! I have been a Bryson fan for ages now, some of the other Brysons books among my favorites are here. This one is quickly rising up the charts of my favorite list.

The book is based in Iowa , Des Moines and follows Bryson's childhood and teen days growing up in America. Well it could have been based anywhere in America or the developed countries and most of it would have still been true. The book chronicles Bryson's teenage adventures be it trying to get entry into a strip show, or stealing beer cases , creating fake driving permits , trying to get lucky with girls , getting entry into "R" rated movies and all those things that people do when hormones are in play.

Standard Disclaimer - I am a sucker for Bill Bryson having read a lot of his other books so this is no different. Bryson lets you travel back to the 1960's with him so you get an idea of how it was to grow up in America in the years gone by.

There is a lot of humor, sarcasm and that unmistakable Bryson stamp on this book where he lets you into his life and you come away thinking hey I could have been friends with a kid like that.

What Should I do with my life?
Po Bronson

The Book doesn't answer the question in its title, It can't , actually no book can. Life would be so much simpler, if answers to eternal questions like these were found in paper back novels.

The best any book can do in this regard is just to provide a few pointers or some encouragement, or maybe a prod here, a nudge there. This book does the same through examples, Examples in the form of short stories detailing incidents in people's lives when a significant change took place. Some incidents that made them think of the big questions in life?
Click here to read 10 stories in this book, very generous of Po to make 20 % of the book available free to the public on his website.

The people described in the stories are not the ones who have necessarily found their answer to the question, nor is everyone unique or what one would call or extraordinarily successful in whatever it is that they do. But everyone has in some point of time or the other saw the meaninglessness in living life and tried to find an answer to the Big question.

The book is not as much a "how to guide" but is more like a chronicle of how different people tackled this question, the difficulties they faced and the experience in general. Of course the book can't give you an answer to find your calling in life, but all it can do is to tell you that you are not alone in this quest to find out , " What should you do with your life? "

For me it just gave an idea of different experiences people have had, and he does this

He has a very interesting Blog where he writes about family, society, marriage, bringing up kids and other similar issues. Po also writes on Time.com and has an large loyal reader base who follow his blog and other writings. Marriage, divorce , and bringing up kids are topics of deep interest to him and he writes very authoritatively and interestingly on these things.

As for the book and its question. I am yet to find my answer, after all its one's own responsibility to find the answer.

PS: I like Po Bronson, for he bothered to reply to my email when I sent him a note of thanks and invited him over to Australia. Here is his reply:

Hi Hari,
You know, my UK publisher hasn't sent me to Australia to promote my books since the paperback of my first novel, in maybe 1996. I've had a few other invitations to come, but family needs have always intervened. My cousin, with whom I am very close, lives in Melbourne, and I'm working on coming sometime this coming year. His family and mine usually take a trip each year. So if that works out, my publisher has said they'll arrange a lot of publicity and events. (At least they say so). So, the end result of all this is ... maybe. Maybe I'm coming to Australia this year.
thanks,

Po

Book Of Questions
by Gregory Stock.

I saw this book for sale for 10 Rs(less than 30 cents Australian) on a footpath junk store in Mumbai. One of my favorite places in those cash poor times to buy books dirt cheap. Rummaging through other old books, outdated catalogues , medical journals and Mills & Boon novels, I saw this pocket sized book with an odd title which was in surprisingly good condition . A sort of a misfit among other books there, on a whim I bought this and walked on to meet another friend who was to see me in a little while.

As I flipped through its pages filled with one line questions, I knew I had picked a gem. That day on the train back home and later that night I and my friend discussed and debated the questions in this book till early hours of the morning with sleep nowhere in sight. The same pattern was to be repeated over all these years that I have had the book. It sparked so many intellectually stimulating conversations that for a long time I used to always carry it around in my backpack to read in public places, and then use the questions in it to strike up conversations with strangers.

The book as the title claims is made up of questions. Questions that will bring you closer to yourself, your ideas, thoughts, feelings, morals and opinions. This is another excellent review of the book. You can also browse through a few questions here. Have a look here to see how many people consider this book an excellent conversation starter.

I sat with an acquaintance one evening with this book and some snacks and by late night and we were friends by the time we finished the book. The same guy would then go on to borrow this book and use it to know more and get close to his potential girlfriends. I myself would eventually use this book to know more about my life partner. I have had countless exciting conversations with family members, roommates, friends, friends to be, strangers, co travelers on trains, waiting halls and in short anybody who would talk to me, all because of the book.

If there is such a thing called "ENDURING VALUE" for a book, this book has plenty of it. Of all the over 300 books that I have at my place in India this is one of the few that I chose to bring with me when I came to Australia. My only regret is that the a couple of weeks after this book I had a chance to buy "The Book of Questions: Love and Sex," again by Gregory Stock, and I didn't buy it as I was a little short of cash, and I have regretted it ever since.

Gregory Stock, If you ever read this page, Thanks for writing the Book of questions.

What you'll never learn on the Internet
by Mark H McCormack

This is a sure fire page turner, coming from an astute business mind who actually knows what he is talking. Mark is a lawyer by profession who developed a sport stars and celebrity management business International Management Group from scratch. His company has managed the endorsements for the some of the biggest names in the international sports arena, big names such as Tiger Woods, Pete Sampras, Michael Schumacher, Derek Jeter, Charles Barkley and models Kate Moss and Elizabeth Hurley. Today IMG is the world's premier sports and lifestyle management and marketing firm, with more than 2,200 staff in 70 offices across 30 countries. I was mad about his first book What they don't teach you at Harvard business School? and picked this book up as the Author's name was familiar.

Coming from a man who actually built such a dynamic and emerging business, the book is filled with simple and totally down to earth business situations. The first few pages are spent justifying the title, as to why you cannot learn these soft skills on the Internet which is a bit of a drag but then the book gets interesting where he starts giving advice in his unique practical style.

Every thing that he suggests is based on an experience that he has had in his company. Time and again he does on about small social niceties that matter more than many bigger things. He has divided the book into chapters for typical situations in business , say if you were recruiting someone, or if you suffered a setback or a demotion at work, typical business etiquettes and office politics and communication. A lot of what he says has got more to do with managing relationships and people, but well when you think of it, isn't managing a business all about managing people ?

As for the book in general, it lives up to its somewhat odd skewed title this is indeed stuff that you could never learn on the internet(unless of course pirates put an copy of this book online;-)).

He died with a Felafel in his hand
by John Birmingham

"Shared accommodation" The type of housing that you rent and take up when you are not married and move in to a new city as a student or take a new job. Shared accommodation is what this book is all about, or to put it differently it is about the craziest , wackiest , nerds that you would come across if you moved around cities living in shared accommodation.

I myself have been living in shared accommodation and in boys hostels for over 7 years now, but never before did I ever think that it can get as interesting or bizarre as described in this book. The book is full of crazy incidents describing John's experiences with flatmates moving around various cities in Australia.

There are times when you just can't stop laughing your ass off on his stories, in fact the title itself is in memory of a flatmate of his who died with a felafel in his hand, and guess what John and his other friends do when they learn of their flatmate's death? If you thought they would try to contact the poor guy's family and let them know the sad news, Think again. They rummage through his stuff looking for anything useful, and finding a few hundred dollars in cash stashed away, they add these as the poor guy's posthumous contribution to the room kitty.

Then there is another guy who stays in the room but refuses to pay the complete share of his rent as he has put a TENT in the living room and claims to be living in the tent. Yes, you heard that correctly. A guy who erects a tent in the room of the house and pays for only the floor space occupied by the tent. The book is about times when you would hold competitions to see who can go the most days without having a shower, or on who is wearing the dirtiest jeans, or when there is fungus growing between your toes as a result of not having a scrub in months.

Tent-dwelling bank clerks, albino moontanners, psycho fucking drama queens, acid eaters, mushroom farmers, brothel crawlers, hard-core separatist lesbians and obscurely tiger-throated Japanese girls are just some of the people you will come across in the book. Many of the times I felt the stories were just too weird to be true.

Overall this is a good book for a single read, I would give it a pass the second time. The book is also the root of a movie by the same name, click here for a good review of the movie.